Dec. 28, 2022

Dec 28, 2022

“Nothing can be more useful … than a determination not to be hurried.”
–Henry David Thoreau 

Dear Ones,

Happy 4th Day of Christmas!

Even more than in a “normal” year (what is that anyway? I’m having trouble remembering…), I’m feeling a need to embrace the season of the winter holidays this year. 

Celebrating a single moment like a solstice, or a day like the appointed anniversary of a birth can be profound and glorious and uplifting, but it also oversimplifies the reality that our lives are complicated and rich with emotional states that don’t consistently align with planetary and celestial movements or with our desires, any more than our planet’s meteorological phenomenon align with our plans for celebration. 

It seems wise to me to stretch out important celebrations that call for joy and merriment–like having eight days of Hanukkah or seven days of Kwanzaa or twelve days of Christmas in the Western European tradition. (In case the marketers have confused you, the Twelve Days of Christmas start on Dec. 25 and run through Jan. 6, the feast of the Epiphany, when the kings/magi/wise guys found Jesus). Larger containers leave space for all sorts of things besides feeling deliriously happy or even moderately merry: reflection, grief, quiet contentment, disappointment, work (always in the background of any good celebration), rest, boredom, restlessness, excitement, and … oh, what else? 

What are you experiencing this week between Christmas Day and New Year’s Eve? Whatever it is, it is absolutely and most assuredly part of being human and, as such, welcome and worthy of notice and holding well–with gentleness, appreciation, and wonder. 

Yours in merrymaking and rest and all the feels,

Rev. Denise
RevDenise@gnuuc.org

P.S. If you haven’t yet seen this year’s Holiday Message from the UUA, featuring UUA President Rev. Dr. Susan Frederick-Gray, I recommend it!