“Take courage … you are not alone.” 
~Wayne B. Arnason (UU minister)

Dear Ones,

Resistance is important, but it is neither enough to live on nor our only tool in response to injustice. Today, a poem for you about resilience: 

“Optimism” by Jane Hirshfield

More and more I have come to admire resilience.
Not the simple resistance of a pillow, whose foam
returns over and over to the same shape, but the sinuous
tenacity of a tree: finding the light newly blocked on one side,
it turns in another. A blind intelligence, true.
But out of such persistence arose turtles, rivers,
mitochondria, figs — all this resinous, unretractable earth.

(from Each Happiness Ringed by Lions: Selected Poems)

So resolve to make like a tree, my friends–when light is blocked, turn another way–the light is not gone. And surely between the trees and the turtles, the rivers and the figs–we are never alone.

Yours in resilience, love, and the strength of community,

Rev. Denise
RevDenise@gnuuc.org 

“It is important that this moment in history does not pass 
without outcry, without our resistance.”
~Emily Baird-Chrisohon, of TIRRC*

“Your focus is resistance.” 
~ friend of a Facebook poster

Friends,

I have just finished listening to a very informative session hosted by *TIRRC (TN Immigrant & Refugee Rights Coalition) for faith leaders. I learned so much about what some of our neighbors are facing right now, as well as ways we might educate ourselves and be on standby to respond as unjust situations unfold. 

To be honest, I don’t know that GNUUC will be in a position to help immigrants directly, but there are several ways we can be prepared: by understanding and being prepared to share information about immigrant rights, by learning about what sanctuary we can provide (really, that’s limited in practice to private spaces instead of our whole building), and by tracking legislation and communicating with our elected representatives. TIRRC has been a fabulous resource to the Nashville community for over 20 years; consider signing yourself up for their Rapid Response Network to get connected. 

I am also aware that there are many other issues and problems and people needing support and attention (or phone calls urging them to represent us better!) these days. So I was glad to read, in an email one of you recently sent to a church group, encouragement to cultivate focus as a form of resistance. 

There is so much that needs resisting right now–none of us can possibly track–or even notice in passing–all of it. I am trying to find my focus; I hope you are considering where you will choose to spend your time and energy; and I look forward to discerning together where GNUUC’s energy comes into focus in the days and months ahead. 

Yours in discernment, focus, and resistance,
Rev. Denise
RevDenise@gnuuc.org 

“Contentment is the antidote to optimization.” 
~ Kendra Adachi

Beloveds,

Recently, I’ve been in various rooms with people struggling to find responses to our world in this moment. We have such a culture of optimization and perfection and striving that it can seem impossible, or at best negligent, to rest or look for contentment. I’d like to suggest that rest and contentment might be spiritual practices deeply suited to this precise moment.

The wisdom arising lately from my colleagues and compatriots and companions is this: Yes, things are bad and will almost certainly get worse, AND each of us needs to tend to ourselves (our own wellbeing), to our communities (nurture connection!), and to the work we find doable right where we are. The possibilities for action are as endless as the problems we face and will face, and no one of us can pay attention to, let alone work with, all (or even a significant number) of those at once. 

For now, it is enough to do the one thing you can do, or wish most to do, or don’t mind doing. Keep yourself whole and healthy, look for pockets of contentment here and now (I believe they can be powerful fuel for the work of justice!), and love on the people closest to you, because plenty more “one things” will call us tomorrow and next week and next month. 

Yours in commitment to the work and resting in contentment,

Rev. Denise
RevDenise@gnuuc.org 

“Hope is not the absence of despair–it is the ability 
to come back to our purpose … again and again.” 
~ Alicia Garza

Dear Ones,

It’s been a challenging week for hope, and yet now is exactly the time we need to dig into whatever we can do to sustain and nourish hope, belonging, and resilience. We will need them all to come back over and over–as is and will be necessary–to who we are and the work that is ours to do. 

This Sunday, in between the worship service and lunch, we will have our bi-monthly Shared Ministries meeting. I’m hoping to take a little time to think about our congregation’s mission in the current moment, and also to engage in a bit of UUA business together.* 

One of the important ways we stay connected to our purpose is as an active member congregation of the UUA (Unitarian Universalist Association). Every year our General Assembly votes on proposed Congregational Study/Action Issues, for which the UUA will support four years of study and action in our congregations and the wider UU movement. 

In filling out our annual certification of UUA membership (which Kris & Kristin & I are working on now), we are invited to vote for, against, or abstain for each of three possible issues for 2025, which I will briefly introduce at the Shared Ministries meeting. If you want to learn more about the issues or the CSAI process, visit this link. 

I’m looking forward to being together and doing some of the important congregational business of staying connected, finding hope, and changing the world. Meanwhile, I hope you are staying warm and safe this very cold week!

Yours in hope and love,
Rev. Denise
RevDenise@gnuuc.org 

*If you have something to add to the Shared Ministries agenda, please email me.

“I know that we can be better than we are.” 
~ James Baldwin

Beloveds,

Heading toward Martin Luther King, Jr. weekend, thinking ahead to the upcoming presidential inauguration, and looking forward to connecting this weekend with UUs across Tennessee organizing to support each other in social justice work, I was reminded of this passage from The Gospel according to James Baldwin, by Greg Garrett, which I’ve been reading with a group of progressive clergy colleagues in town: 

“What Baldwin believes about faith, I would argue, is that belief and action badly applied make us more dangerous, more limited, more blinkered in our vision. A bad religious understanding may breed jealousy, greed, and hatred. ... But rightly applied, faith and hope make us bigger, better human beings, capable of seeing and loving the world and all those in it, capable of living in hope rather than in fear.” 

Baldwin’s assurance that we can be better strikes me less as a judgment about our failings than as a stubborn application of faith and hope to the human condition and its infinite variations. At the same time that I hold a certain (healthy?) skepticism about the idea that we will be better, I do want to be part of the club (which might be labeled “the faithful”) that believes we always, in every situation and permutation of humanness, carry within us the possibility of being better. 

The brief sentence of encouragement from Baldwin quoted at the top also opens some interesting questions, which I will leave for you to ponder:  

-Who is “we”? 
-What kinds of “better” might we cultivate right now?

There are no right/wrong answers, just yours–or ours! And I would suggest these are good questions to entertain in preparation for our next meeting of GNUUC’s Shared Ministries Council (which, you may remember, is a meeting of the congregation) at the end of our service on Sunday, January 26. 

Yours in faith, and the hope of applying it well,
Rev. Denise
RevDenise@gnuuc.org

“Vulnerability is the birthplace of love, belonging, joy, courage, and creativity. 
It is the source of hope, empathy, accountability, and authenticity.” 
- Brené Brown

Dear Ones,

If  Brené says vulnerability leads to such good things, then vulnerability is what I wish most for all of us in this new year! 

And if that sounds scary (and it may well, at least a little), I’d like to point out that one of the best gifts of a congregation like ours is repeated opportunities to practice vulnerability together–which we do every Sunday in sharing Joys & Concerns, and which last Sunday’s New Year ritual with our magic burning bowl also invited, as we released the old and invited the new in our hearts and lives. Thank you all for participating so honestly and generously. (And if you didn’t get a chance to play with us, I have a few slips of that “magic” paper left over; come see me & we can burn something together!) 

I am told that my joy in lighting things on fire showed on my face Sunday morning; in fact, I feel a much longer-burning satisfaction in creating and recreating spaces and times for us to gather and practice being human together. I am grateful to have such good company!

Yours in vulnerability and joy and courage,
Rev. Denise
RevDenise@gnuuc.org 

“A Crooked Road” 
– Darrell Scott

Beloveds,

I apparently picked up some germs about a week ago, and I’ve been hunkered down at home almost that long, recovering from COVID. Thankfully, it’s been an altogether uneventful case, and I’m glad to be out of quarantine now, though still a bit tired. 

So not much of a love note from me this week, just the song linked above. 

Oh, and a reminder that this Sunday, Rev. Diane Dowgiert from First UU and I are engaging in the old, revered congregationalist practice of pulpit exchange–meaning she will be in the pulpit at GNUUC, while I will be preaching at FUUN. I am looking forward to seeing old friends at FUUN, and I hope you will enjoy the company and wisdom of my dear colleague. 

Yours in walking the crooked road with old friends and new,
Rev. Denise
RevDenise@gnuuc.org 

P.S. Our Christmas Eve service will begin at 4:30 pm, although you are encouraged to arrive earlier to enjoy special musical offerings.

P.P.S. To my knowledge no one has yet volunteered to make reservations for dinner after the service. Let me know if you pick up this easy ( just one phone call to a business that remembers & enjoys us!) volunteer task.

“Let nothing dim the light that shines from within.” 
~ Maya Angelou

Friends,

December, with all its variety of Northern-hemisphere winter holidays like Hannukkah, the feast days of the Christian saints Lucia and Nicholas, Winter Solstice, Kwanzaa, Bodhi Day, and Christmas, along with others like the SE Asian festivals of light that come in February, typically pushes us to celebrate light in the darkest part of the calendar year. I typically push back a bit against what can seem like an overemphasis on light by relishing the restfulness and enticing mystery of darkness. 

Right now, cherishing and protecting, spreading and encouraging light seems important, perhaps even vital. So, while I definitely would encourage you to notice and engage the darkness of the next few weeks, maybe also light a candle in the early evening to remind yourself that light in the midst of darkness is particularly sweet. Or resolve to notice and enjoy both sunrise and sunset on the same day–it’s never easier to do than this time of year! Or have a listen to this fine song by our friend Lea Morris (recorded by the Indianapolis Women’s Chorus). 

Yours in the comfort of dark and the sweetness of light,
Rev. Denise
RevDenise@gnuuc.org 

P.S. We will, as is our custom, celebrate Christmas Eve with a service full of music and reflection and ending in candlelight. Be on the lookout for details about that service and another GNUUC custom of sharing dinner at our favorite Chinese buffet!

“The future is an infinite succession of presents,
and to live now as we think human beings should live,
in defiance of all that is bad around us, is itself a marvelous victory.”
–Howard Zinn

Dear Ones,

I know tomorrow is Thanksgiving, and it is traditional to spend this week cultivating a spirit of gratitude, but I’m finding that a wee bit challenging in some ways this year. (You too? Or maybe not.) Howard Zinn’s reminder that this present moment…plus this one…plus this one and the next, offer almost infinitely renewable opportunities for resistance feels like a reasonable basis for gratitude in this particular moment.

In the sometimes bewildering mix of gratitude (for all that is my life–and it is a rich life!) and dismay (that much of what is good and needful for my life and the lives of my beloveds is increasingly under threat), a reminder to simply live right now as best I can opens up a little breathing space. I don’t generally think in terms of victory and defeat, but the idea of small acts of defiance accomplished daily seems worth exploring and even cherishing.

Yours in love and deep gratitude for the present and its possibilities,

Rev. Denise
RevDenise@gnuuc.org